Question by Dadintrouble: Wife just moved out seperated and is talking divorce.(women Please)?
She moved out last night and as much as i have changed my preception on thing she didnt want to stay and work it out. Have a 5 year old and we agreed to 50-50 custody and such, Im a great father and great provider. I just bought a her a house 7 months ago and spent 20k furnishing it with what she wanted. She left me basically for emotional neglect and she is correct, but the reason i was this way was because she refused to help around the house. I worked full time, her part time, I did 95% house chores, including cooking. And she would not pick up after herself, i felt like a women complaining about their husbands. She would come home and throw her socks and shoes in the middle of the floor and go to sleep on couch. Disregard if it was supper time for our 5 year old etc.. Now i do love her but she doesnt love me anymore, as far as i can tell there is no other guy , but im sure there wontl be soon. She told me she is enjoying the attention from other guys and it makes her feel good.
Now my question is i am giving her space and try to have as little contact with her as possible, but we do share custody of our child so we have to talk alot. I am wondering if i should ask her out on a date for valentines day? i was thinking maybe just buying her some flowers and having them delivered, saying love always or something like that. I am not sure what to do so any advice/recommendations would be great.
When i mean changed my perception, i mean i am working on not letting her cleaning habits build regret in myself. That way i can show that i do love her without the resentment.
Answer by BJgirl
Im sorry she has done this to you…
Honestly,if I were you,I would move on. From what I have read,she sounds very self-centered,and that wont change…
I wish you the best…and no,I wouldnt waste money on a Valentines gift…
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