Question by Amber: Why do you think married male friend of mine doesn’t want to give me personal advice?
I’ve gone to him w/advice I need, regarding dating and men and never had a problem with his response until the other day. He said, “I don’t give personal advice because I’m happily married.” Why doesn’t he want to be Dear Abby just because he is married? I thought we were close friends, but evidently we’re not. Thanks.
Answer by sweet
Maybe he just doesn’t know the answer.
Maybe your making him uncomfortable and he doesn’t know how to say so.
Lay off. He’s set a boundry and you keep crossing it. As a friend of someone who is married you should respect that and ask for advice from someone who is comfortable answering.
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