where to meet decent men in New York City?

Question by Lizzie: where to meet decent men in New York City?
I live in NYC — which is a socially nightlife culture. I am 35 and female. Where do i meet decent men if they are not in clubs and bars? I am so tired of everyone just trying to hook up with me… god, I mean I do have a personality, too. I want to meet a good hearted, non-cheating guy who WANTS a relationship. Where?

** there isn’t anyone at work…and my friends do not have single guy friends…

Best answer:

Answer by jOH!™
I have posted some links with some suggestions anyone anywhere could use to meet a new guy. Shine from Yahoo is a great source for this type of stuff. Good Luck.

http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/sex/where-are-all-the-great-guys-to-date-228289/

http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/sex/where-to-meet-your-future-husband-510950/

This is for fall, but guidelines still apply.
http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/sex/five-best-places-to-meet-a-man-this-fall-531980/

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