I am single, but am I ready to mingle?

Question by JustJane: I am single, but am I ready to mingle?
To cut a very long story short, I got rejected by a “friend” of mine on Monday last week, spent the next two days in depression and confusion (mind you, I was in depression for the past couple of months, and this just added to it!). On Thursday I got asked out by a guy who seems quite nice. I turned him down nicely, explaining what I’d just recently been through. He agreed that it was too soon for me to be dating, and perhaps we should just start as friends and see how it goes? I said alright, and I’m meeting him day after tomorrow for coffee (yay!)

Couple of things:
1) he is ten years older than me. I am 23. But we have the same taste in music, same views on various topics which I feel strongly about.. Do you think he’s too old for me?
2) He is half-Greek, half-Irish. I’m Pakistani but brought up in Dubai. He says he finds me and my smile really, really attractive. Do you think that differences in our culture could be a barrier? He has the same family-oriented views that I do, and loves to be with people from another culture (and I do too!)
3) Due to really bad experiences with men in the past, I am feeling very cautious and unsure of myself, but I really like this guy and it is the first time that I’ve actually clicked with someone (past boyfriends all being douche bags of the highest order).
4) I’ve just barely deleted emails of so-called friend, and I am being asked out by this lovely bloke. I have no feelings except regret that I wasted time on that “friend”, and I most definitely don’t want him back even if someone serves him up on a gold platter dressed with tartare sauce! (Plenty of fish in the sea and all that.)

Do you think it’s too soon for me to be dating?

Best answer:

Answer by Destroya21
Eat a pringle while single. Then you’ll be able to mingle.

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Is Frieza from Dragonball Z single?

Question by : Is Frieza from Dragonball Z single?
Im caucassian, 34, and I have a very strong sexual crush on frieza from dragonball z. I find frieza extremely attractive. I spend my days at work fantasizing about Frieza taking me away from my office and into his arms like superman does with Lois lane. I cant get enough of him asleep too, I have wet dreams about him all the time, like I had a dream he was the pope and I was a little Irish lad. Those dreamy cold eyes, the chizled body and man boobs, that gorgeus and huge 😉 tail! Does he have a boyfriend? I would love to be his though!!!!

Tell me what you know and think! Hes a hunk i think he should pose for playboy with those big sexy boobs. Is it normal to be in love with this handsome and great looking fictional character? Is he single?
Just look at those dreamy eyes! http://media.giantbomb.com/uploads/0/31/11031-frieza6_large.jpeg

And those big sexy pecs/man boobs and chizled arms!!! http://media.giantbomb.com/uploads/0/7094/216676-100__power_frieza_super.jpg

Best answer:

Answer by Wendy
Is he single hahaha why do you SERIOUSLY think you’ve got a chance with him???

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How do I deal with the fact that I’ll probably always be single?

Question by Wheep Wheep Piggy Feet: How do I deal with the fact that I’ll probably always be single?
I’m so afraid that I’m never gonna be happy!

I would like to have a boyfriend. I would like to share my life with someone who loves me too much to ever leave me or abandon me or cheat on me. But I worry that the chances of that ever happening are slim, possibly zero. I know that I need to just get over it but I feel so sad. I sound like I’m feeling sorry for myself but I’m actually really loving and caring.

The problem is that I have a different sexual orientation than most people. I’m completely straight… but instead of being attracted to guys of my own country and ethnicity… I’m attracted to Hispanic guys!

I’m a USA-ian and Floridian and I have Irish and some Spanish (European Spaniard) and French and Welsh ancestry. My ancestors have been in USA for nearly one thousand years.

I’m not trying to be mean but I’m not attracted to American white guys. I know that there are plenty of good decent ones, and I have loads of friends who are American white guys! But I’m just not attracted to them, in the same way that I’m not attracted to other girls. I like lesbians as people but the thought of kissing another girl turns me off! I feel the same way about white American guys.

I’ve been told that Mexican guys are ALWAYS going to prefer latinas and that they would never take a shite, USA-ian girl seriously as a girlfriend. I’m NOT racist, I despise racism and I have loads of Mexican friends. The problem is, the nice decent Mexican guys always marry girl from their own culture. There are good and bad and every race, the good ones just aren’t attracted to us. Mexican guys aren’t attracted to white American women at all; the nice ones marry their own kind and the ones that DO marry or date white American women always seem to have ulterior motives. But the chances of a Mexican guy loving me and taking me seriously as a gf and being faithful to me are really slim. The ones that are loving, faithful, decent, etc. ALWAYS marry girls from their own country. There are good ones… they just don’t seem to want us.

One of my closest friends is Mexican and he says that this isn’t true. He’s a good friend, and he’s brilliant but I feel confused because everything I see and observe makes me feel really discouraged.

I’m really sorry if I’ve offended anyone… I mean no offense at all.

Everyone tells me that I haven’t me the “right” American guy yet but I KNOW my own heart. That’s like saying that I’m really a lesbian and just haven’t met the right girl. I’m just not attracted to American men!

I’ve been in love, truly in love, ONCE in my life. When I studied abroad in Mexico… I became close friends, then fell for, a guy in one of my college classes.

He abandoned me for a girl from his culture (who is a LOT more sexually promiscuous than me) and I found out that he was just pretending to like me because he wanted to have sex with me and he assumed that I would be easy to seduce.

This is what frustrates the hell out of me… I’m 31 years old and I’m at the age where it’s creepy and weird to still be a virgin. But I’ve never had sex with anyone, male or female. I never did plan on saving sex for marriage but I vowed I’d wait to have sex until I met someone who mutually loved me and took me very seriously, in other words, I’d have to be REALLY serious with someone.

What frustrates the hell out of me is that no one will take me seriously as a girlfriend because I’m from USA and they assume that I’m an easy slut!!! That just kills me because I’ve waited 31 years to have sex and still waiting and it’s all because I want to wait for true love.

I am feeling so sad. I wish and wish that there were a magic spell that could change my race, but I realize I’m just gonna have to deal with being single. I feel like nothing in the world will fill this void and I’m so lonely.

If you say, “You’ll find the right American guy” you’re wrong. I’m NOT racist, I just am not attracted to them. I like black hair and dark skin and eyes and guys that like to be romantic and loving and like to hold you and cuddle. I think that US culture is cold. I’m not puting USA down; it’s just a different culture.

ALL Latin guys, and even most white Anglo-Saxons, seem to prefer latinas.

Best answer:

Answer by smithers
ty is that you?

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