Please help me..Why can’t I trust my husband that he is not into online dating chat or having cybersex ?

Question by Anita: Please help me..Why can’t I trust my husband that he is not into online dating chat or having cybersex ?
When I was starting out a career in sales which I love most, I caught my husband getting into chats and collecting nude pics of young women in his PC. I was devastated then because I was really bent into making a living for us so he can get out of his former company which he said was hell. I was really trying my best to earn enough so he can resign and find a job he really love. So, I stopped working and was so insecured then. He showed me all his e-mails and gave me his passwords.
But up to now, I just can’t help but distrust him. He stays in the office very long because he was working he said. How can I trust him again? Is there a way that I’d be able to know if he is into it again? Why would he clear up his chat messages?
I caught him because I logged on to his chat box and saw some chats there. Please if you know any way that I’ll be able to know if he is into chat again? Is there something wrong with me? I always trust my instincts, thats why I am so SAD now.

Best answer:

Answer by Joe C
Well, you married a real winner, but when men sit around not working, this sort of thing is made worse.

Try talking with him, and hopefully, this will be able to snap him out of it if he realizes how serious and harmful it is. I hope that he loves and cares for you enough to change.

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