I dont Know what to do concerning this divorce?

Question by wisam: I dont Know what to do concerning this divorce?
I have been married for 5 years and have a daughter that is 3 years old , I am really confused because I cant let go of my husband although I know that he doesnt care about me enough to stay in this marriage , I come from a middle eastern country where a divorced women is viewed as a low creature …i dont have major issues with my husband but my problem is that he listens to his father , who dictates his life for him , he seldom has any say in his decisions although they effect me more than they effect him , his father does not express his dislike of me although it is apparent and my husband is in complete denial of this !!! he always uses the pretext that his father is sick and he has to do what he says , eventhough it leads my daughter to live away from her father , I know that he doesnt deserve us but I am in love with and I think that things between us would be better if he didnt have a father …please help me I m going through a very bad time what can help me adjust
I have already left him what I need is help in adjusting to my new situation , my daughter does not eat and she is very grouchy and asks for her father
his loyalty to his father never bothered me and it still doesnt but its his father’s interference in my life , even in my work , which is bothering me it is one thing to let your husband control the things you do or want to do , but to have his father do it for him ? even if I do live in the Middle East

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Answer by Let love be your guide
Nothing can help you adjust, you are married to a mouse, not a man, men have strength of character, they do not act like mice in front of their fathers. He is weak, pathetic, useless and abusive, and you have low self esteem!!!

It is time for you to become the strong one and stop being used, divorce is not good, but then again it is totally against God to stay around and be abused and used. Your happiness is most important and you will never be happy in this life, and why is your daughter not the most important part of your life, if she was you would have left a long time ago, your daughter will see you as weak and pathetic unless you get some self esteem and strength of character. Stop being a door mat, stop being walked all over, if he wants a divorce, then tell him okay, be strong and let him know you are strong, you are being abused and used and you are allowing it.

Grow up!!!

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i would like to know more about therapeutic risk taking in the client-therapist relationship?

Question by trenchtownanalyst7: i would like to know more about therapeutic risk taking in the client-therapist relationship?

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Answer by paxtondusty
do you mean taking a risk in the client/ therapist relationship?

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Does anyone know of good books or magazines for single parents?

Question by grapesgum: Does anyone know of good books or magazines for single parents?
I am looking for gifts for some of my friends who are single (as in never married) parents. All of the books that I have found address divorce and custody issues which are not relavent to their parenting situation.

I tried a subscription to a popular parenting magazine for one friend. The feed back that I got from her was that it was a waste of money for her. She made comments like each issue is full of irrelevant articles for her because they focus on the husband-wife relationship. In the course of her 2-year subscription, there was not a single article about single parenting. I was so embarassed that I had insulted her in this way.

I have tried looking at the newstands and searched on the net but have found nothing. Help please??

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Answer by Granny
Most people close a blind eye to single Mothers. A parent is a parent, go to your local bookstore and see want they have, I’m sure you’ll find what your looking for.But for the most part she can use your support and encouragement more.

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i have to do a career project and i want to be a relationship therapist but i dont really know what they do an?

Question by 315cuti: i have to do a career project and i want to be a relationship therapist but i dont really know what they do an?
i want to know what they do and everything.
also can i have a few stories on how they helped you.
if they helped you.

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Answer by Jimmy G
Relationship Therapist, Relationship Counselor, Couples Counseling, Marriage Counselor, Relationship Therapist… You can just mix and match and choose as you please!

Your ‘other’ comes home from work, and heads straight for the bottle of vodka stashed in the freezer. You haven’t had a real conversation for weeks. A few arguments over money or late nights out, sure, but no heart-to-hearts. Sex? What’s that?

GUESS WHAT?

Your relationship is on the rocks, and you both know it. But you aren’t sure how to fix things — or if you really want to. With ‘help’ from the right people, you can recognize the problems you two are facing and either find your answer by parting seperate ways… or THEY can help you understand your relationship better and make a well-thought-out decision on what to do.

THAT IS WHEN THEY CALL YOU!

As far as a career project, throw down an improv… an act.. get a few friends dress them up and tell them to act badly. Pretend to help them, sit them down run them through the usual and have them kiss and make-up.. Points for creativity and productivity.

Honestly, if you are looking to follow this for life, do your research… and if you still love the idea of helping them out and watching couples walk away happy, GOOD LUCK. i am sure anyone would be lucky!

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If you know God is against divorce, why not work on your marriage instead of trying to get hooked up on line?

Question by follower_of_christ36: If you know God is against divorce, why not work on your marriage instead of trying to get hooked up on line?
there are a lot of dating sites where divorce men and women come to find a mate and a lot of them are Christians looking to remarry. I have chatted with some of the women and my one question that I ask is, “why are you posting on your page that you are a God fearing divorce woman looking for a God fearing man. If anything, shouldn’t you be asking God to help fix your marriage instead of going on a date site to find someone else since you already know that God is against divorce? If you think about, why do you think John the baptist was beheaded?
could it be because he kept telling Herod to repent

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Answer by Strats!!
Because people are lazy and stupid.

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Does anyone know this old Irish folk song?

Question by romance@short notice.: Does anyone know this old Irish folk song?
I can’t for the life of me remember the name of this song.

My mom sings it all the time. It’s an old song about an Irish man coming home to his village, and the whole idea is that everyone who lives there comes to greet him. The major thing is that yuo’re supposed to rattle off all these rhyming surnames as part of the song, but I can’t remember a single one of them.

I need some meds to fix my memory problem haha. But in the meantime, does anyone know what I’m talking about?

Thank you!

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Answer by shelby
is it this one??

a great day for the irish

Oh, I woke me up this morning and I heard a joyful song
From the throats of happy Irishmen, a hundred thousand strong
Sure it was the Hibernian Brigade
Lining up for to start the big parade
So I fetched me Sunday bonnet and the flag I love so well
And I bought meself a shamrock just to wear in me lapel
Don’t you know that today’s March seventeen?
It’s the day for the wearing of the green………..
It’s a great day for the Irish, it’s a great day for fair
The side-walks of New York are thick with Blarney
For shure you’d think New York was Old Killarney
Begosh and begorragh, every Irish son and daughter
Every good old Irish name and their relation
They come from Tipperary, Donegal and County Kerry,
They are all here to join the celebration……….
There’s Connolly and Donnelly, Ryan, O’Brien,
McLoughlin and Lynch, Pat Flannigan, McFadden, McPhearson and Finch
Hogan and Logan, Fitzpatrick, O’Bannigan, Danny O’Doole and Seamus O’Tool!
(note the Garland version includes a fast paced additional litany of names at this point)

It’s a great day for the Shamrock, for the flags in full array
We’re feeling so inspirish, shure because for all the Irish
It’s a great, great day…..
It’s a great day for the Irish, it’s a great day for fair
Begosh, there’s not a cop to stop a raiding
Begorrah all the cops are out parading
It’s a great day for the Shamrock, for the flags in full array
And as we go a-swinging, every Irish heart is singing
It’s a great, great day……..

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I want to know why there is such a lack of Latino men who are interested in dating African-American women?

Question by afroamericanvafemale: I want to know why there is such a lack of Latino men who are interested in dating African-American women?
Is there an unwritten rule in Latino culture, that it is unpopular – and therefore unacceptable- to date anyone outside of your ethnic background? Or does the taboo only apply to women of African American ethnicity? If so, why do you think this kind of discrimination surrounding choosing black dating and relationship partners exists, when Latinos are a minority group too?

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Answer by amazingly09me
shut up!

not a troll! just not in the mood!!

fix yourself…i know black girls with latino guys (and the black girls aren’t attractive)

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