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How can a relationship therapist help me if my spouse refuses to speak to a “stranger”?

Nov 08

Question by askme: How can a relationship therapist help me if my spouse refuses to speak to a “stranger”?
She feels we can solve our problems on our own, but nothing is ever solved. It is something I feel we need.

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i believe the therapist could help but not if he isnt willing to make it work. good luck
divorce is hard

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Event highlights groups, activities that help keep community safe

Nov 07

Event highlights groups, activities that help keep community safe
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HUMPHREYS GARRISON – About 200 members of the USAG-Humphreys Community attended Family Safety Day, held in the vicinity of the Community Activity Center, here, May 22.
The event, hosted by the Installation Safety Office, featured information booths from various community organizations, a Fire Department-themed bouncy house and slide for children, a cookout, and prize giveaways.
Among the organizations that participated were: Army and Air Force Exchange Service, Army Substance Abuse Program, United Service Organizations, Drug Abuse Resistance Education, and the Korean Diabetes Association.
In honor of Bicycle Safety Month, AAFES representative, Tom Reid, discussed the importance of wearing protective gear while riding a bicycle. At his booth, children and parents watched a video that demonstrated the effects of body and brain injuries when not wearing a helmet. The booth also displayed helmets, other protective gear, such as reflective vests and belts, and registration forms that people can fill out to ride a bicycle on base.
At another booth, the Korean Diabetic Association from Pyeongtaek International Hospital, tested people’s blood pressure and blood sugar.
The event, which is usually held in June, was held earlier this year to help prepare community members before summer arrives.
At the event’s conclusion, children received prizes such as bicycles, helmets, protective wear, and water guns.
In addition to the Safety Day activities, the Safety Office hosted a grand opening of its Motorcycle Training course.
Anyone interested in any of the garrison’s Army Training Safety Training program courses – Basic Riders Course, Experienced Riders Course, Military Sport Riders Course, Intermediate Drivers Course or Remedial Drivers training – should visit www.ridesafe.kr for class dates or call 753-5583 or 753-5580 for more information.

U.S. Army photos by Pfc. Georgina Gray, Pfc. Steven Ho, Jessica Ryan and Lee, Hye-young

For more information on U.S. Army Garrison Humphreys and living and working in Korea visit: USAG-Humphreys’ official web site or check out our online videos.

Event highlights groups, activities that help keep community safe

Nov 01

Event highlights groups, activities that help keep community safe
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HUMPHREYS GARRISON – About 200 members of the USAG-Humphreys Community attended Family Safety Day, held in the vicinity of the Community Activity Center, here, May 22.
The event, hosted by the Installation Safety Office, featured information booths from various community organizations, a Fire Department-themed bouncy house and slide for children, a cookout, and prize giveaways.
Among the organizations that participated were: Army and Air Force Exchange Service, Army Substance Abuse Program, United Service Organizations, Drug Abuse Resistance Education, and the Korean Diabetes Association.
In honor of Bicycle Safety Month, AAFES representative, Tom Reid, discussed the importance of wearing protective gear while riding a bicycle. At his booth, children and parents watched a video that demonstrated the effects of body and brain injuries when not wearing a helmet. The booth also displayed helmets, other protective gear, such as reflective vests and belts, and registration forms that people can fill out to ride a bicycle on base.
At another booth, the Korean Diabetic Association from Pyeongtaek International Hospital, tested people’s blood pressure and blood sugar.
The event, which is usually held in June, was held earlier this year to help prepare community members before summer arrives.
At the event’s conclusion, children received prizes such as bicycles, helmets, protective wear, and water guns.
In addition to the Safety Day activities, the Safety Office hosted a grand opening of its Motorcycle Training course.
Anyone interested in any of the garrison’s Army Training Safety Training program courses – Basic Riders Course, Experienced Riders Course, Military Sport Riders Course, Intermediate Drivers Course or Remedial Drivers training – should visit www.ridesafe.kr for class dates or call 753-5583 or 753-5580 for more information.

U.S. Army photos by Pfc. Georgina Gray, Pfc. Steven Ho, Jessica Ryan and Lee, Hye-young

For more information on U.S. Army Garrison Humphreys and living and working in Korea visit: USAG-Humphreys’ official web site or check out our online videos.

Very depressed – my mom’s boyfriend/husband has driven a wedge between us! Other divorced women/kids, help!!?

Oct 26

Question by Stormy: Very depressed – my mom’s boyfriend/husband has driven a wedge between us! Other divorced women/kids, help!!?
This is a bit long, but could use some advice from divorcee moms or daughters who dealt with divorce as older children. This issue is tearing my relationship with my mom apart.

I encouraged my mom to divorce my dad about 6 years ago and am now regretting it. I was seventeen, and my parents had a horrible relationship, and my Dad was always angry and made everyone’s life miserable… and my mom was always gone, so I encouraged her to divorce him. And I am now regretting it sorely… that they didn’t at least try counseling first, because neither sorted through their issues and both have been making bad choices ever since.

My mom aimed low and met a guy at a bar who is around age 43 (I think – never been able to get a straight answer). My mom is 59 but looks good for her age. I tried to be optimistic but my warning vibes went up from the start and I tried to discourage her from getting too serious. The new guy, “Larry”, is not good with money, raised his kids entirely different than my folks raised my brother and I and comes with a history. This is a small city and the word is that he goes after older women and bleeds them for money. In the beginning, every time I met this man I met another one of his children… most by different women, and there’s at least 5 or 6. They are around my age (I’m 23) and his son’s have been arrested for stealing cars and other delinquency and his daughters are/were all teen mothers.
The behavior with regard to his children is something I especially could not understand, because my mother raised my brother and I with such high goals, and to do well and be respectful, that to get pregnant as a teenager or to get arrested is just completely unheard of in my house. Yet she somehow now treats his sons like it’s funny that they drink heavily and get into trouble. It’s not a big deal all of a sudden.

This man quickly drove a wedge between my mother and I and I ended up moving out of her house (a strain on me, because I’m struggling with university) and he moved right into my mother’s house with his youngest daughter. My mom threw all of my things out of my room and moved his seventeen year old daughter in, which was extremely hurtful. She proceeded to bring guys home and have sex in my mom’s bed, and got pregnant shortly thereafter, but that is besides the point.

A few things set off more red flags about this relationship besides Larry’s history and my mother’s emotional vulnerability. They were away in a nearby city for the night and had a fight and Larry took her car and took off. My mother had to call a family member to come and pick her up in the middle of the night 2 hours away. She was also very guarded with what she would tell me about him, almost overly-sensitive that I would be critical. Things she kept from me were his drinking, problems with his children, fights, she pretty much wanted me to think he was an angel.

Last Christmas, my mother was ready to leave him, and admitted to me that “they’re using me for money and I’ve had enough”. Shortly thereafter my grandmother (her mother) died, and they got back together and everything was hunky dory. Then, they get married a few weeks ago. My mother, who swore she wouldn’t marry again, decided to marry Larry.

For my own sanity, I did not go to the wedding. I no longer go to her home as it is too painful for me and I don’t want to start a fight. I don’t wish to have my life shared with theirs.

My mother and I have not spoken regularly for two years now and it is driving me into a deep depression. She has recently begun to call me again, insisting she is a good parent. I feel emotionally abandoned and could really use her support because I am having a hard, lonely time at university.

I believe this man is keeping her from coming to see me without him present. He used to call to check up on her constantly when I still lived at her house (when they were dating). I believe he is encouraging her that if I don’t accept the marriage that she should not see me.

I have told her that as long as she is happy, then that’s what matters. But I have told her I will not break bread with Larry and his family. I can’t do it.

My question is… am I being unreasonable? Or am I rightfully trying to protect myself in this situation? Is there a better way to handle this? I feel very depressed right now and my sense of reality and what is normal is completely thrown off-skew.
I wish my mother would at least come to see me once in a while… is it unreasonable of me to expect to see her without Larry present?
I should add that other family members are also suspicious of this man. My grandmother didn’t think he was a good person and my aunt also refused to go to the wedding.
Thanks everyone for the answers so far. The outside perspective is really helpful.

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you are stubborn and want it your way. Everyone comes with baggage you just have to get used to it or forget it.

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Divorce Help ? How To Divorce Your Wife and Keep Your Pants!

Oct 22

Divorce Help ? How To Divorce Your Wife and Keep Your Pants!

Divorce Help – How To Divorce Your Wife and Keep Your Pants!

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Divorce Help – How To Divorce Your Wife and Keep Your Pants!

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First of all, let me just say that I understand that a divorce is never easy, I have been trough it myself and it was the worst time in my life. However, you can’t let your emotions get the better of you in a divorce. I am sure you have heard the horror stories. A man gets divorced and loses everything, children, house, the car and half your worth. Do not become one of these guys! A divorce does not have to mean losing everything. Read on to find out how to protect yourself in a divorce.

Hiring an Attorney

Hiring an attorney can be good for divorce help, but it won’t guarantee you a good outcome. Many divorce lawyers couldn’t honestly care less about you and your personal situation, they get paid anyway. It’s still a good idea to consult with an attorney, but it’s a bad idea to let him or her run the entire case with you on the sidelines. If you want to hire an attorney then you should already know what you plan to do and what your strategy is.

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Custody Issues

Custody issues are often the hardest part of a divorce. Unfortunately, the American legal system is heavily skewed towards granting women custody of children. The judge is supposed to grant custody to the parent which the children would be best off with. In reality though, many judges just give custody to the woman. Here’s the thing; You can do something about it. There are several ways to get custody of your children. Anything that can show your stability and strong points should be shown to the court. Emails, personal testimony. Of course there are other methods you can use, that are not so nice. I won’t go into those here, but if you really want custody, then you should consider them. I deal with them on the page that I link to in the bottom of this article.

How Much Does a Divorce Cost?

The total cost of a divorce depends heavily on the outcome, but also on the process. An attorney will cost you, missed days at work due to court apperances will cost you. You have to factor in everything. The best way to minimize the cost of a divorce is simply making sure you are not being taken to the cleaners by your wife. Understand this: In a divorce case, your wifes divorce lawyer will encourage her to get everything she can from you. It’s very important that you realize this. You can’t be the only one playing fair.

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If you’re finding it difficult to deal with the emotional and mental strain that divorce has brought about then you’re not the only one as thousands of other men undergo the same pains and problems that you are experiencing right now. The reason why is because of the fact that there is so little support available for men. Society in general treats men as the stronger of the sexes in terms of physical and emotional strength which leads to the misconception that …

Three men stand at the door of an empty store front. A wagon out front is loaded with large sacks. A sign in the window in English and Yiddish reads “Help the garment workers in their fight for bread and freedom.”

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Three men stand at the door of an empty store front. A wagon out front is loaded with large sacks. A sign in the window in English and Yiddish reads “Help the garment workers in their fight for bread and freedom.”
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Title: Three men stand at the door of an empty store front. A wagon out front is loaded with large sacks. A sign in the window in English and Yiddish reads "Help the garment workers in their fight for bread and freedom."

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Collection: New York Call Photographs, ca. 1908-1923

Repository: The Kheel Center for Labor-Management Documentation and Archives in the ILR School at Cornell University is the Catherwood Library unit that collects, preserves, and makes accessible special collections documenting the history of the workplace and labor relations. www.ilr.cornell.edu/library/kheel

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Tired of Being Single In Cleveland – The Best Dating Website Help

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Many of the professional singles that are struggling night and day to achieve professional satisfaction and to have successful careers are encountering difficulties when it comes down to their dating lives. By spending all their time working for a successful career, they spend the evenings and the weekends barely resting and relaxing from work, in order to regain their energy for another long work week. Parties and social gatherings are off-limits for these professionals that cannot risk wasting their precious time going out on dates with people they know nothing about what they want and waste time. What these single professionals need is some specialized help for success, to find them suitable ideal matches and to do the hard work for them.

That is exactly what ClevelandProfessionalSingles.com does for the best singles in Cleveland so that they find themselves quicker. It is one of Cleveland’s best dating resources available and it’s especially designed for the use of Celveland most professional singles, because the level of success is a very important aspect for a career-oriented driven person and they want their companion to share the same ideals and perspectives for successful relationship. This localized dating website knows how important is to have someone to share everything they want together and constantly tries to help quality singles in finding that ideal soul mate.

The ClevelandProfessionalsingles.com has implemented many great features, allowing the users to feel safe and secure in this environment and constantly trying to improve the quality of their dating services. For example, they have set a customer support line, where every member in need is offered assistance and support in any troubles he might have. Moreover, they are extremely strict with personal information that’s uploaded on their members? profiles and they make sure everything is according to reality. They do a background check on each member and check to see if what he has filled out is as authentic and real as it should be, taking into account that this website is meant for honest people that are true in their search for a long-lasting and sincere relationship.

What ClevelandProfessionalSingles.com offers is a very high-quality service and tries to create an honest and sincere dating environment, helping people to find what they are looking for: a great partner to share everything with.

When searching for a Cleveland dating site, one should really check out http://www.Clevelandprofessionalsingles.com. They have helped countless numbers of Cleveland Professional Singles meet each other without having to sift through countless matches that were not serious.  Quality Cleveland Professional Singles are ready to meet singles that share similar goals and passions just like you.

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Dating – secret help?

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Question by Demona: Dating – secret help?
I have two online dating profiles, one a real one and my second is a tester one (I have a sexy non facial shot and my profile is somewhat suggestive – I don’t use this one at all it’s just kinda sitting there)

Three months ago I went out with Jason twice and after about a week I got a text message saying he was going to pursue another girl, which was fine with me since we weren’t “dating” Last month he messages me and wants to try again since it didn’t work out with the other girl. I told him I’m no back up girl right off the bat.

Last night I decided to go out on a date with him just to see if any spark was there. It was but not a huge explosion

Here is my problem, last week I logged into my second account and saw that he messaged me there (obviously he doesn’t know that it’s me) so I have been messaging him back

He has told me personally he is going to close his online account. He even mentioned my second account to me last night during dinner!! He was totally lying to me about it too saying she was pressuring him into meeting up to hook up (not true) But now he is asking my second account phone number so they can meet up.

Now I’m stuck that maybe he wouldn’t have done this if I didn’t respond to his message… or maybe he would have and I just got lucky that he messaged my other account so I know about this. So I call him on it or just say nothing?

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I think it would be a blast to try out a Mrs. Doubtfire number over dinner–you’d have a story for life!

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New York law firms help women divorce their abusers.(Brief Article): An article from: Trial

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New York law firms help women divorce their abusers.(Brief Article): An article from: Trial

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Ladies only: What kind of dating site profile would help a guy?

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Question by square smiley: Ladies only: What kind of dating site profile would help a guy?
Ladies only: What kind of dating site profile would help a guy?

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A profile with good recent pictures, that describes yourself and your interests in a simple but informative way. Good Luck! These are 2 excellent dating sites.. http://www.itsrainingmates.com/ and http://www.cupidschosen.com/

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