Should i take my time into getting a girl into dating me or be more direct?

Question by Big Greasy (just a random name): Should i take my time into getting a girl into dating me or be more direct?
I Want as many women to answer this question as possible. Do Women like a guy who finesses his way into her heart or is more direct.

Best answer:

Answer by Crystal N
Actually it can be both. He can take assertiveness and be in your life. Start out as friends and develop into something more. The only thing that does it is time and confidence! But generally speaking girls love when guys make the first move so its better if YOU initiate it.

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