Question by Gena r: My boyfriend still has an online dating profile!?!?
I’ve been seeing a guy for nearly 3 months. We agreed to be exclusive 6 weeks ago. We call each other bf and gf and he said that he has told me everything and he doesn’t want any lies or secrets between us.
I thought we have gone into that great place where we can trust and enjoy our relationship without wondering where we stand.
My single friend was showing me her online site last night and while perusing the guys within our age range in our area, (and having a few laughs) i found a profile for my man! It said he was on there within the last 3 weeks. I felt sick and humiliated to see him on there, especially since we have been exclusive for longer than the time he was last on.
I texted him last night and didn’t mention it, but I subtly mentioned something that he said in his profile, hoping that if he just forgot about the site, he might be reminded and take it down.
Well, he has now been on there in the last 24 hrs. but his profile is still up.
What do i do? After all the talk about how much he cares about me and how he calls me his gf, I just can’t work this out in my mind.
I’m too upset to talk to him right now and have not returned the text he sent me this morning.
I feel like running form all this. Hellpppp! What should i do??? he had so many chances to either delete it or be honest. this feels bad, real bad. ?:(
Answer by Ay Lynn
exclusive means exclusive! and if he is truly serious about you two being together he should respect you enough to delete it, and if you alone isnt enough for him then kick him to the curb. find a man that truly respects you, and wants nothing more than the love that only you can give. good luck :0)
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