Question by bigbadwolf: I have a question for divorced women. When your divorce was over, and you started dating again…?
…did things your new boy friend/boy friends do (things they said, how they would say them, mannerisms, ect….) ever remind you of your ex? Reason I’m asking is that my current gf has been divorced for nearly 4 years, they were married for 10, and sometimes I can tell that her whole demenor will change. It’s like they blanks out, or backs out of the relationship a little, sometimes gets a little angry at me for no good reason. When I ask her about it she’ll usually say something about how something I said, or did, reminded her of her ex. She’ll apologize for it and she says she realizes that it’s something that she’s going to have to get past. This has happend a couple of times. When it does she says that she just needs her space, and needs to go talk to her counselsor. How should I deal with this? And also, should I be dealing with this? Am I foolish for hanging in in there when she has this issue? Does this mean that she’s not really ready to start dating again? Help!!!
Answer by jakeb
It just means you don’t really know her yet. Face it, all girls have a nasty side, you will see eventually. Don’t take it so hard, they are emotional and sometimes have rage.
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