How to Find the Best Dating Website for You

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How to Find the Best Dating Website for You

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Posted: Oct 25, 2010 |Comments: 0



Of the many dating websites you can choose from, you can usually easily narrow the field down to  one or two, especially when you know exactly what you are looking for. Here are the two usual ways to choose the best dating website: (1) solicit the advice of your friends or family; or (2) carefully investigate the websites yourself.

The first method is more personal, but you may not have any family or friends who have actually used a dating website before. Not to mention, just because a particular dating website appeals to your family member or friend, doesn’t automatically mean it has the features and benefits you are looking for. While the latter is more impersonal, it will at least allow you to find a site based upon your desired criteria.

It is important to note that the best dating website for you does not necessarily mean that it has to be the largest dating website available on the internet; nor the most feature-laden website. The best dating website is the site that will best enable you to feel comfortable and be yourself.  

On the internet, you will find essentially three types of dating websites: (1) popular; (2) specific or niche; and (3) community.  

The popular dating websites satisfy the needs of the general public and usually feature a vast database filled with millions of members. These are the most common types of dating sites available.

The specific or niche dating site caters to people who are searching for other members with a common interest or trait. For example, there are sites made specifically for Christians or Jewish people. These types of sites aren’t limited to just religion. For example, there are sites that allow you to find someone of a particular race. In fact, there are even sites that allow you to find someone who is in the military. If you are looking for someone that has some specific characteristic, chances are good, you’ll find a niche site to fulfill that need.   

The last type of common dating sites are community dating websites. Community dating websites are quite similar to niche sites but cater to even narrower specific interests. For example, if there is dating website for the Christians (specific or niche), there is also a dating website exclusive to Catholics (community). A niche dating site can cater to people who are Jewish but a community dating site would focus on people who are not only Jewish but are Orthodox. A niche site would focus on people who are in the military; but a community dating website would narrow it down to people in specific branches of the armed forces.

If you are brand new to the concept of using a dating website, your best bet would be to focus on a popular dating site first. On the other hand, if you already have some experience with online dating, or know exactly what you are looking for in another person; then the best dating website for you may be the niche or community type sites.

When choosing the best dating website, you should take the following into consideration:

1) Size of membership database. Generally speaking, the larger the database, the higher the chances of meeting that special person who suits your needs or personality.

2) Safety. The website should include safety features. This kind of goes along with number 3 below.

3) Privacy. The website should provide you with an email address specifically for dating purposes, and should never disclose your personal information to anyone. You alone should decide if, when, and who gets your personal information.

4) Ample number of members in your area. Those of you who live in larger cities won’t have as much trouble with this as those who live in more rural areas. Once you join, you’ll be able to determine if the site has enough local singles for you or not.

5) Free dating tips and guides to increase your chances of success. A great dating website will give you plenty of information to help you maximize your chances of finding that special someone. For example, they should offer advice on how to set up an online dating profile that will maximize your chances of getting responses to your ad.

6) Reasonable membership fees. The features and benefits of the dating website should far outweigh the costs. If the site doesn’t provide free tips, guides, plenty of potential singles, or a reasonable support system; then there’s really no point in paying for a membership at that site.

The best dating website should also offer a trial run for a certain time; so you get to test and familiarize yourself with the features of the website. Also, to ensure there are plenty of other people from your area also on the site. You just have to make sure you make the most of your free trial.  

It won’t do you any good if you sign up for the free trial and don’t even bother to set up a personal profile, or browse the other members to see if there are people who would make good potential matches. So long as you take full advantage of the free trial, you’ll be able to make a truly informed decision of whether to pay to keep your membership or continue your search for the best dating website.  

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