What this means is definitely do not go home with him until the third date. Calling him is a no-no. If you want to say something to him, do it through text-message. Leave the man to do the calling. Kiss him, but don’t let him kiss you whenever he wants to. Do it on your terms.

The best way to do that is to avoid playing the “20 questions” game at all costs. As humans we’re trained to get to know people by asking the same old boring questions. We make inquiries about their hobbies, about their likes and dislikes, about their occupation, and all kinds of other details. The problem lies in the fact that we’re all conditioned to ask these exact same questions, so if you participate in the “20 questions” game, you will invariably come across as average.

Chances are great that she will be the one to ask these questions if you don’t. So what do you do then? You use these questions to immediately establish yourself as the polar opposite of an average guy; you should dodge the answers, and give only playful responses in return (at first). This tactic not only instantly establishes you as a special guy, it also exudes what is probably the single most attractive trait to a woman; the element of mystery; and with it, suspense, and anticipation.