Why are women on online dating sies so cold?

Question by sportguy: Why are women on online dating sies so cold?
I’m a guy who has been using sites like match, plenty of fish, and chemistry for a while. One thing I have noticed is that 98% of the females never respond to ANYTHING (winks, IM’s, emails, whatever). Now, I’m not Brad Pitt, though, I’m told by many women in real life that I’m a good looking guy. And, I have been in plenty of relationships, but have not found the “right one” yet. So I thought I would give online a try. I’ve been on a few dates, but mostly with women who either live too far away, or who don’t want the same things in life as I do. Although most of these dates seemed like nice people.

My question is, are women on these sites serious about meeting guys, or are they just on there to see what/who is out there? I ask this because almost all my single guy friends notice the same trend. You try to make contact with a women and get nothing for a response. I mean, not even the common decency to say “no thanks”, or “sorry, not interested”, just completely ignored! It seems no matter how nice of a guy you are, how clever your profile, how good your pics are, you get few responses. I do get emails from women from time to time, even hot women, so I know I’m not ugly! But why is it that more people on these sites taking meeting people more seriously? It is pretty sad how superficial online dating is. It seems it is all about photos and headlines, and not very much about the type of person you are or what is in your profile. I don’t get it! In everyday/real life I talk to good looking women and even today had a beautiful woman tell me if she wasn’t married she would like do something with me. Why don’t more women who are like her online ake even the slightest interest?

Best answer:

Answer by LCC
Dude. All I can say is I agree with you 200%. Which is why I tried them for a while but soon gave up and deleted my profiles after I could write a girl about the weather and still… nothing. And I know it’s not my looks either.

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Why are women on online dating sites so cold?

Question by sportguy: Why are women on online dating sites so cold?
I’m a guy who has been using sites like match, plenty of fish, and chemistry for a while. One thing I have noticed is that 98% of the females never respond to ANYTHING (winks, IM’s, emails, whatever). Now, I’m not Brad Pitt, though, I’m told by many women in real life that I’m a good looking guy. And, I have been in plenty of relationships, but have not found the “right one” yet. So I thought I would give online a try. I’ve been on a few dates, but mostly with women who either live too far away, or who don’t want the same things in life as I do. Although most of these dates seemed like nice people.

My question is, are women on these sites serious about meeting guys, or are they just on there to see what/who is out there? I ask this because almost all my single guy friends notice the same trend. You try to make contact with a women and get nothing for a response. I mean, not even the common decency to say “no thanks”, or “sorry, not interested”, just completely ignored! It seems no matter how nice of a guy you are, how clever your profile, how good your pics are, you get few responses. I do get emails from women from time to time, even hot women, so I know I’m not ugly! But why is it that more people on these sites taking meeting people more seriously? It is pretty sad how superficial online dating is. It seems it is all about photos and headlines, and not very much about the type of person you are or what is in your profile. I don’t get it! In everyday/real life I talk to good looking women and even today had a beautiful woman tell me if she wasn’t married she would like do something with me. Why don’t more women who are like her online ake even the slightest interest?

Best answer:

Answer by Advocate Mehehe
Man, I feel you. I’ve had the same problems, write a friendly hello and lucky to get a response of any kind, then if you can get some responses they’re super short one word responses…I think it may be that girls thing online guys are just creepers and don’t want to meet anybody online which makes it dumb to join an online dating website…Girls, any response as to why a nice, good looking guy can’t even get response?

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Women, online dating and playing hard to get?

Question by roll ova rova: Women, online dating and playing hard to get?
If a women reads my message, looks at my profile and doesn’t respond; most would say “NOT INTERESTED, DUH.” but some women play hard to get and after some chasing they answer back as if she was replying to the 1st message instead of the 3rd or 4th.

Am I right to say that a look (or no look if she’s hard-core hard to get tease) without a reply does not necessarily mean NOT INTERESTED, but COULD mean I WANT YOU TO CHASE ME FOR A BIT.

Yes no? maybe? I dont know. Can you repeat the question…
Oh yea, I keep emailing until they either coe out of their shell or tell me to piss off…only way to know for sure, just because you dont catch fish the 1st time in that sea, doesnt mean you wont catch ever.
OH YEA, I must clarify that I dont expect INSTANT reply, we all have lives. But how long does it take to think of a reply? days? SERIOUSLY! LOL!

Best answer:

Answer by Patient Chicken
Huh??If a man is patient then he’ll eventually get to know me.Eventually.

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Women on online dating sites are…?

Question by Danger: Women on online dating sites are…?
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BQ: What are some stupid things you’ve seen on online dating sites?
Women’s profiles that say “I like to laugh and have fun”
No $ hit… How unique.

“I need a man who knows how to take care of a woman (pamper me), has goals and ambition (rich), is smart(er than me) , likes to travel (rich/pamper me)…”

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Answer by Alisha Phillips
My Mom Met Her New Husband On Match?
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